I went through all my "loved posts" on Bloglovin' (posts from my favourite bloggers that I have loved, aka I have push "love"button when I have read the post)
and now I collected themes and things that I learnt from them
- What will I be when I grow up?
Will I get a job? How will I pay my housemortage?
What if my bf doesn't love me after ten years?
What if I don't have any friends after 20 years and I'll be sad and boring?
STOP WORRYING about your future !!!
Right now you are happy, you have things you have and make the best out of them ! If something bad happens, did that you worried about it change the outcome??
- if a unknown person asks you to deliver his loveletter, find a way to deliver it !! First, they deserve to get heard from each other and second, letters are the best. And third, spontaneousness is the power that keeps this world alive
- if you see someone in a need of help, help. See someone crying alone, ask what's happenin or just give a tissue. Open the door for the person in a wheelchair or give your map to a person who's lost. It is not embarrasing even if no one else is doing it, it is not wrong.
- on a holiday, don't stress. You may find happiness from the tiniest(not Michelin-star)restaurant, on a beach, in a table with strangers, on a walk to nowhere, in the reception of your hotel. Stay open
- eating porridge in the morning is good for you
- moved to a new place and immedieatly did not get any friends? the postman's not the same, rain looks different, sun shines less. You are the change !
Start to like the new place, make new routines, notice something that was not in the old place. Read my posts from last summer, living in the tiniest place and had the best summer ever
- "Sometimes, you just have to get away with the girls" - Carrie Bradshaw
Eventho it's winter, eventho you have exams coming up, eventho you have a pile of things to do.
Sometimes you just have to.
- it is okay to Spend Weekend. The way that it feels bad on Monday, the way that you feel like you've lived. Life will win.
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photo from pinterest
- if your relationship takes you to weird situations, like playing carting-pc-games, just do it.
It is just fine. I'm sure your bf doesn't always uuuurge to watch cute puppy-photos from weheartit.com
- go and pick mushrooms ! How priviledged we are to have free food in our beautiful and clean forests ! Learn to know the dangerous ones and google a cool hipster-recipe to make something out of them.
Respect the mushrooms and the berries, they are freeeee!!!
- people with special needs are people too. just like me or you or your dad.
- if it rains on every day of your holiday, it is not anyone's fault so don't blame anyone or be mad at yourself. people can still live in a rain or even sing
- you have a problem? go and ask your mom.
- no success? try again. and again.and again.
- it should be okay to have sparkling wine. on a normal Tuesday night. with no reason. alone.
- it is okay just to drink wine, pay the bills and love. save the world tomorrow.
- markets are the best !
- if you have pracelets, all the best for you ! I had a relationship with them for four years and it was worth it
- after a trip, it is okay to leave the bag hangin out on the floor for a week or so (this helped my life a lot)
- there is no embarrasing music or celebrates
- it is okay to SOMETIMES drink like you did when you were 16.
and take photos of it, like you did back then
- before you judge, get to know first. even to a dog, give him a chance
- be the one for someone who takes contact first. it doesn't have to be a love commitment, it can be just how you doin' or saying that life's shit. be in contact
- if you want a photo with that flower punch or with that wall, go and get that photo
- respect the fact that you have been born into a life that you live in. there are many out there who could easily switch with you
- feeling ugly, fat and distressed? Put high heels on, your favourite pants(they can be sweaters ), open your coat and hair and own the street.
- be happy for someone else
- you are you and there's nothing you can do about it. except your absolute best
- sometimes, you can't just go with the flow and dance on the streets.
sometimes you have to work, damn hard, study, damn hard and watch rain.
- pinics are always a good idea.
- if something stresses the shit out of you, let it be.
- whatever the reason, whatever the feeling, Ben&Jerry's got the answer.
Or wtf, if it's ice-cream, it's good enough
- do an inspirationposter
- there's always some reason to see friends, have a party or do zumba alone at home
For a conclusion, I could say I love posts that tells about little things in life, new aspects, friends, love.
That IT.IS.OKAY.
photos from weheartit.com
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